The Bible has a lot to say about adultery and living with someone before marriage. God is not pleased when we have "eyes full of adultery". If we commit adultery, God considers it a sin. Adultery always starts off sweet, but it always ends in bitterness. The best way to avoid adultery is to flee from it. If you have committed adultery, God will forgive you if you repent.
James 5:3. Money becomes a corrupting influence when we just accumulate money and riches for its own sake. James 5:3 says, “Your gold and silver is cankered; and the rust of them shall be a witness against you, and shall eat your flesh as it were fire. Ye have heaped treasure together for the last days”.
1 Timothy 5:8. God has given father's wisdom and ability to be providers for their families. All that fathers need to do is diligently seek god's will and do what is right in the Lord. A father should do everything legally possible to provide for their family.
Matthew 15:34. The Bible is clear that a person can remarry into another Christian marriage relationship if their spouse has died.
2 Timothy 2:17. We must be aware that false teachers can cause conflict in our lives and lead us away from God. God desires for all us to be sanctified, set aside for His own use, but this cannot happen if we are led astray by false teachers.
2 Timothy 2:16. Sanctification, to be set aside for God's use, requires us to be purged of many things. One of those things is to avoid profane language and avoid idle chatter.
2 Peter 2:13. It seems simple to say, but you cannot overcome guilt if you continue to take pleasure in what you know is wrong. When you feel guilty about doing something, this feeling of guilt is there for a reason. Guilt is not the spoiler of the party, it is really God telling you and showing you that you need to go to the next level.
Genesis 39:12. Joseph of the Bible ended up overcoming temptation by fleeing from it. He had become a servant of Potiphar, Pharaoh's captain of the guard. Joseph did well and prospered in the house of Potiphar. This was until Potiphar's wife became to have eyes for Joseph.
Bible Summary. If you have committed adultery and really want to deal with it, you need to repent of your sin. When dealing with adultery you have to realize that adultery is lust, not love. You must realize that the only way to deal with adultery is to flee from it.
What You Have In Store After Adultery
The following is an incomplete list of what you have in store after your immorality is found out.
* Your mate will experience the anguish of betrayal, shame, rejection, heartache, and loneliness. No amount of repentance will soften those blows.