Romans 2:1. Even though it is human nature to judge people that is no excuse to do it. God is very clear about us judging people – don't do it. We are to give people the truth, God's Word. We are not to use God's Word (the Truth) to be judge and jury over people. It does not matter how someone hurts you or is disgusting or just plain evil. These are no excuses to judge other people. God is the ultimate judge. If you judge people, God will judge you because you attempting to upsurge God's authority.

1 John 3:17. A key difference between love and lust is that lust only cares for itself (self love). Lust always focuses on an object to fulfill its desire. This object can be a woman, money, a car, a dress, fried chicken - anything. From lust's perspective its object of affection is only there to fulfill. Lust has no compassion for what it lusts for. Lust only shows affection until it finishes using the object of its desire. Lust is a selfish taker that is only concerned with fulfilling its own needs. Lust and love do not co-exist.

1 John 3:17. The definition of compassion must include love and good deeds, not just good deeds. Someone cannot be compassionate unless they have the love for others. God loves us and He desires for us to love one another. To be compassionate we must have love in us that compels us to do good deeds. If we just do good deeds for someone, but we have no love for that person we are not compassionate (1Co 13:3, "And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing").